Think you MUST have an Orgasm to enjoy sex?
Don’t make orgasm the goal of sex!
There you are, trying to enjoy some “sexy” time … but then the thought creeps in. The “I must have an orgasm!” thought.
Once that happens you might be so focused on having an orgasm that you can’t get there.
You might even have this image that an orgasm is supposed to be like it is in the movies, or how your friends describe it.
When this happens (and it’s very common!), you can become inattentive to your own sensations.
So instead of you ignoring your own sensations, let’s flip the script.
What if a healthy sex narrative is all about removing the mindset: “orgasm is the goal”. It just might open you up to a whole new world.
And listen, if you’re feeling like you’re all alone when it comes to this mindset, here are some stats for you:
10-15% of women have never had an orgasm
18.4% of women orgasm with vaginal sex alone.
Women take an average of 14 minutes during partnered sex to orgasm.
Women tend to have an orgasm faster when masturbating.
Amazing, right? Can you imagine, given those stats, how hard it is for women to just relax into pleasure? Let’s change all that …
If you’re ready to have fun and enjoy the journey, instead of over-focusing on the destination, join us on January 10th.
It will be kind of like learning how to enjoy the entire meal instead of simply waiting for the after dinner drink!
In this January 10th workshop, we’ll show you how to replace the goal of orgasm with the goal of pleasure, instead.
To register for the workshop, click here.