Women don’t want Perfect. They want Present.

While it’s good to learn techniques for emotionally and sexually satisfying women, there’s something even more essential: knowing who you are and what you want and staying connected to that.

Most women are drawn to men who live from their desires and passions.

Men who are in their own current. They might not always say it, sometimes that kind of presence feels intimidating or even a little dangerous - but it’s magnetic.

If you try to please her or anticipate what she expects, you might win her approval…

But, you’ll lose the tension and mystery that make attraction come alive. The secret sauce of desire isn’t compliance, it’s polarity.

It’s a delicate balance: offering what women want while staying deeply rooted in yourself.

And here’s the good news, this kind of confidence isn’t reserved for a chosen few. It’s not something you’re either born with or without.

It’s learned through the body.

You can’t think your way into embodied confidence any more than you can learn to play an instrument or ride a bike from a book.

It’s a felt experience.

That’s why, when men come to my practice wanting to become better lovers, we don’t start with “what women want.”

We start with YOU.

Your body, your breath, your erotic energy.

We explore what truly turns you on, what boundaries feel right, and what desires want to move through you. From that place of embodied awareness, you naturally learn to express and connect in ways that are authentic, grounded, and magnetic.

Because real attraction begins when you stop performing and start inhabiting yourself.