Words that make you blush 😳🔥

Not the clinical words - like “penis” or “vulva” (although there’s nothing wrong with those!) - but the words people actually use in bed.

You know… words like c*ck, p*ssy, f\*ck, suck, and so on. 😏

These are the words that carry a charge. They’re raw, real, and often way more arousing in the heat of the moment than anything you'd hear in a doctor’s office.

But here’s the thing:

Most of us grew up in cultures where saying these words out loud - especially with someone else - was seen as dirty, crass, or shameful. 

And that shame doesn’t magically disappear just because you’re an adult. 

It lives in the body. It shows up in hesitation, in giggles, in avoidance, or in going silent right when you want to express something juicy.

One of the reasons I chose to train in Somatica was because I was done with shame. 

I was in the process of embracing my own s-xuality. I wanted to be surrounded by people who could talk about s-x openly. I wanted to feel free to say words that once made me blush and squirm.

And the truth is? The only way I got comfortable was by actually saying them. 

Over and over. 

Laughing through the awkwardness. Feeling my nervous system recalibrate. Noticing how it became less taboo - and even fun.

Now? I can say things I never imagined I’d be able to say without shrinking. It’s kind of wild to look back and see how far I’ve come.

If this is something you struggle with - if you'd like to speak more freely, express your desires more clearly, or feel less awkward using the language of your turn-on - I can help.

As a somatic s-x and relationship coach, I create a safe, non-judgmental space for you to practice saying the things that feel hard to say. 

Whether it's through role-play, guided exercises, or simply having the conversations you’ve never had before—I’ll help you build the confidence to own your voice and your pleasure.

✨ You don’t have to stay silent.

✨ Your erotic expression deserves freedom.

If you're ready to feel more empowered in the way you talk about s-x, send me a message or book a free consultation.

Let's turn those blushes into boldness.