How to find your sexiest self...

When it comes to sex there’s this false belief that someone needs to desire you before you can feel turned on. And that you must want someone in order to feel desire for them.

The more I engage in the art of love making, the more I understand that’s not true. There’s another way to experience eroticism that’s actually much more satisfying. And sustainable.

What I actually want is to want myself.

I’m enjoying being fully in my body and experiencing my aliveness, my pleasure and my power.

When I’m in this place I get to sense into my greatness, the Self that’s greater than all my parts.

And what I want is to be with someone WHILE I want myself.

It’s like I’m enjoying the affirmation of someone being with me in this self-wanting state but l the self-wanting isn’t generated by the other’s presence.

Their presence is not a must, it’s just gravy. I’m already turned on.

That’s when I’m the sexiest.

I feel it. My partner feels it too.

It took a lot of work for me to get to this place of wanting me.

I believe that we’re all capable and deserving of experiencing this kind of bliss.

But there’s a bit of messaging to reprogram and undo, first.

Today, I’m able to do it because of the help I chose around my sexuality.

And there’s nothing I want more for you, than to discover this for yourself.

As a Somatic Sex and Relationship coach there are many tools that I can give you to help you find your sexiest self, not by pretending or doing anything external, but by embodying your own eroticism.

Contact me if you’re interested in working together.