Sexual energy isn’t just for the bedroom

How about this for your new year: your sexual energy doesn’t have to be confined to the bedroom!

“Wait, what?” Yep, it’s true.

Society likes to keep things neatly packed so it’s easy to manage people.

We compartmentalize things by saying things like “You can’t have too much fun at work. There’s work and there’s play” or “You should only dance if you're a dancer”.

Where does this happen most?

Sex.

Shame for having sexual feelings is big in our world.

We’re taught that our desires are “bad” and must be confined to a specific time and place.

Almost everything sex related is “naughty”.

This can leave you wondering,

“Why am I having such a hard time getting turned on when it’s “time” for sex?”

“Why is it so hard to transition from taking care of things around the house to having sex?”

It’s hard because your body doesn’t have an “on” switch. Sex is directly connected to sensuality, and sensuality is directly related to our ability to sense and feel.

We need to allow ourselves to feel our sensual and sexual energy in different situations:

  • when we’re taking a nice hot shower

  • when we’re eating something yummy

  • when we’re letting our bare skin be kissed by the sun

  • when we’re connecting to other people

That doesn’t mean we have to act on those feelings but it’s totally ok to experience them.

Your sexual energy is where your creativity, your power and your aliveness is!

One of the ways to deal with issues around sex is to decompartamentalizing it. It takes practice but guess what?

We have the perfect place for you to do that. On January 10th we’ll guide you through different practices which will help you access your sexual energy more freely.

Come join our in-person sexuality workshop in a safe and intimate setting.

To find out more about it and to secure your spot click here.

Odelia Shargian