Your s*x life called. It wants coaching.

People ask me questions about my job as a S*x and Relationship Coach all the time, so I put together some answers for you. Because I figured you might be wondering, too!:

What is a S*x and Relationship Coach❓

A S*x and Relationship Coach is a trained professional who supports you in navigating challenges around intimacy, s*x, and relationships.

They help individuals and couples address concerns such as low libido, s*xless marriage and s*xual dysfunction, while guiding them toward their fullest erotic and relational potential.

Unlike traditional s*x therapy, which often focuses on processing the past, s*x and relationship coaching offers practical, actionable tools to overcome roadblocks in the present.

This work blends education, skill-building, and compassionate support so you can embrace your deepest desires, understand your boundaries, communicate openly, and learn seduction tools.

What Does a S*x & Relationship Coach Do❓

We hire coaches to help us with fitness, career, and personal growth so why not with one of the most important aspects of our lives: intimacy?

Because intimacy is essential to emotional well-being, it’s important to address any challenges that get in the way of connection, pleasure, and fulfillment.

Friends and general therapists may not have the training or it may feel too personal to discuss but as a s*x and relationship coach, I have specialized tools and knowledge and I work in a judgment-free space where your s*xual and emotional needs are fully welcome.

What does a a coaching session usually include❓

  • Compassionate listening to your experiences and desires

  • Asking questions to understand the history and layers of your challenges

  • Sharing tools, practices, and resources tailored to your needs

  • Guided exercises such as breathwork, movement, self-touch awareness, or communication skills

  • Checking in on your progress, adjusting approaches, and integrating your growth into everyday life

What’s the difference between S*x & Relationship Coaching and S*x Therapy or Couple’s Therapy❓

S*x therapy often involves exploring deep-seated trauma or emotional wounds from the past. Coaching is about action and embodiment, practicing skills and approaches that help you feel more confident and connected now.

While therapists must hold advanced degrees in mental health or medicine, s*x and relationship coaches receive specialized, in-depth training focused specifically on intimacy, s*xuality, and relational skills.

The benefit of working with me as a coach is that you get the best of two worlds since I am also a trauma informed Somatic Therapist.

Why work with a S*x & Relationship Coach❓

We’re often led to believe that s*xual skills should come naturally that if we have the desire, everything else will fall into place.

But the truth is, while wanting sx is instinctual, _knowing how to create deeply satisfying sxual experiences is something most of us were never taught_.

Conversations around s*x remain stigmatized, and clear, supportive guidance is hard to come by. Few are fortunate enough to have a partner who can teach them.

Since honest feedback is rare in s*xual relationships, many people are left guessing about what actually works. This is where a skilled s*x coach can make all the difference.

S*xual confidence and skill can be developed, just like anything else with the right guidance.

A s*x coach offers a safe, affirming space for learning, exploration, and real-time feedback.

Curious to see how this could support you?

Let’s talk. I offer a free 20-minute consultation where you can share what’s going on, ask questions, and see if working together feels like a good fit.

I’d love to connect.

Odelia Shargian